I am 53 years old and lost my husband 2 1/2 years ago to cancer. I am a survivor of incest which is why I guess this story just got to the core of my soul. This is my mission until the day I die. To let people know that child molesters are most often than not a family member, friend of the family, and it generally happens at home. The monster we are looking for rarely exists. We have to wake up AMERICA and stop the SILENCE. Find your VOICE and put it to good use! The first step is to learn the FACTS. Education is key and all of us must re-learn the best way to raise our children. They are not miniature adults, they do not have adult brains, but all to often we project our adult thinking onto children.