I'm a retired , educated professional in the healthcare & mental health fields. Sober alcoholic for over 30 yrs am also involved in helping others recover from substance abuse and life issues. Family has been negatively impacted due to a family member being an ex-offender. It has affected us financially, socially, housing, and unemployment, not to mention a young man who will never know his nieces or nephews, have a family of his own and having a broken family due to the fact that he can't be there for any family functions with children, or any social functions including children--even at church. The heartache I suffer, that we all suffer will be for a lifetime. All this for consentual sex w/a girl who claimed she was 18.