It's time to make a choice. We have had two generations of kids raised in daycare and it isn't working out well at all. Choose whether you want to raise children or have a career outside of the home. This applies to men as well. One if you needs to stay home and raise the kids. Sorry if that means no McMansion or the kids can't have the latest sneakers or be driven around in a new SUV every year. If you can promise to raise your own kids, I'll change my mind and say yes to this. If you can't afford kids, there are ways to avoid having them. Just wanting them isn't enough. You have to be able to raise them properly.