Thank you to the OBGYN on this post who said it all. We have to leave this to women and their doctors. Most that happen during this time are extreme circumstances after a heartbreaking discovery that their child is not viable. Stop making it an even further painful process for these families. These are very wanted pregnancies. And they are dealing with so much heartbreak as it is. Stay out of this private matter that many have gone through and pour energy into support groups that help families recover from these very difficult times.