The only people who should determine when an abortion occurs are women & their doctors. Only 1% of abortions occur after 20 weeks - in large part because of problems with the fetus or because of a threat to the life of the pregnant woman - with the vast majority occurring before 16 weeks of gestation. Continuing to allow mysoginistic old white men to enact draconian laws meant to keep women barefoot & pregnant is an egregious affront to the explicit rights to "life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness" enshrined in the Constitution most of those same men claim to be upholding. A fetus is not a person - it is a parasite, incapable of independent life outside of the womb. Only after drawing it's first breath outside of the host's body does the fetus become a baby as we all envision them.
The continued demonization of women who have an unwanted, unplanned pregnancy takes the focus off the unmentioned and unpunished half of the equation - the men who chose to insert their unprotected penises inside those women, providing the remaining half of the genetic product that resulted in those same pregnancies. This is exacerbated further when those in charge allow various religious complaints to interfere in the ability of women to obtain & use reliable methods of contraception to prevent those same unwanted, unplanned pregnancies in an attempt to prevent women from expressing their sexuality in whatever way they choose.
I needed an abortion when I was 15 years old, too young to be a parent & too foolish to recognize that I was playing with fire when I let my boyfriend feed me the "If you live me you will" bullshit. When I found out I was pregnant, he was dust. When my mom called & asked his parents to pay half the cost of the abortion, his mother claimed it wasn't her problem.
We need to teach our boys that they are not the only person whose pleasure & desires matter, and I know that my dad, who had two sons he encouraged to "get as much as you can" before he married my mom & got himself a teenage daughter, at least recognized that he had maybe been wrong to encourage such exploitation of teenage girls.
Reproductive care is healthcare, plain & simple. If people with a penis don't want their penis and testicles regulated by law, they should stop trying to control what people with vaginas do with their uteri.
I don't believe ANY woman plans a pregnancy for the purpose of having an abortion. Any woman who has knowingly carried a pregnancy for 5 months has done so expecting to give birth to a healthy, live baby in the end. Those who are forced by genetics or other unforeseen malformations to terminate a pregnancy after they have felt that fetus moving inside them are already enduring their own private hell. Making that pregnancy termination illegal isn't just wrong - it's inhumane.