I was raised to think I was never "good enough" no matter what I did or how hard I tried. I tried to become the "perfect woman" so I could be "lovable and "good enough" for someone. I had to go through hell before I learned that "perfect" for someone else; would never happen. A "perfect body" was never the same for any two people. I had to understand that the person in the mirror was the only one I had to answer to. I had to be comfortable with ME!