I remember in the 60th in Germany, we had a topless fashion time.... 😁😂 it was funny and nothing sexy! (On beaches and parks you still find today females sunbathing topless.) Most girls/women that went for this trend, should have better worn a top and the ones that could afford to do so, in general didn’t. It’s no different as it is with the guys. If you feel the need to flunk it you should be allowed to do so. And regarding the children, the more natural you raise them, the less problems later....if you grew up seen it without shame or dirtiness, the less you feel the need later on to discover it in secrecy.