This is personal freedom . If I fell in love with a man who confided in me that he was gay .This is choice . This is freedom . He chooses not to be with a woman . Thats his right . Its not racist or prejudice . Be careful what we tell others to think or feel . This is not China or a country where our leaders tell us what to think or feel . Careful . Real Careful . If they dont feel comfortable making invitations for a gay couple that is their right . Dont tell someone how to think or feel . We are not machines to program .