agi i know they normally target 9 years olds so i guess that why it,s wierd. if his name was mohammed and the girl was nine it would be fine . now crawl back in your hole.
Certainly it is possible for someone to scream rape to discredit or "get back at" someone else. I have heard of it actually happening and, in a "politically correct" society, the innocent person was put in jail, lost his career, and must report as a sex offender. The woman finally admitted what she had done but the legal system refused to correct its "mistake."
It is also true that rape is a decimating crime and one that the victim may never get over. I don't have any answers, only...
It is also true that rape is a decimating crime and one that the victim may never get over. I don't have any answers, only questions.
But nobody EVER "deserves to be raped." That is a chauvinistic and ignorant ("not knowing and not wanting to know") statement. It is as insane as "legitimate rape."
Nobody deserves to be falsely accused, especially of rape. No rapist deserves to walk free. More than 9 out of 10 rapists do. That's the problem.
No, Andrew. The problem is that the legal system doesn't work when men are accused and convicted of rape because someone is angry and when 9 out of 10 rapists go free. Is the 9 out of 10 because the 9 who are acquitted have enough money to hire a "good" lawyer and the 1 who is convicted doesn't? I don't know - as I said I only have questions.
Its hard to stop rape when the government allows it!
We're working on that elsewhere with the Invisible War. Thanks!
Try preventing it instead... you're more talented at it.
a tiny bit long, an amazing message, predators look for this ... we as humans must watch out for each other... peace and love... D
Thanks for adding your voice!
First of all, there's no sound which is disturbing.
You shouldn't have picked an arabic-looking guy as the raper, it's not nice, they have already enough to deal with.
And the most important of all, no girl should drink this much. Everybody must know their limits and keep a certain amount of self-control. Noone is going to take care of us as a mother, we have to do it for ourselves and be able to use our brains at all times.
There's sound on ours? We agree people shouldn't drink too much, but you know I'd like to think that if I faint at the bus stop that's not an excuse for rape, just like being drunk doesn't excuse rape.
Arabic Looking I thought he looked French or just dark hair maybe your prejudiced already with stereo-types in your mind....?
Andrew you're right, and I didn't say it was an excuse for rape. All I mean is YOU have to take care of YOURSELF first of all, and you shouldn't trust strangers.
Darren, he IS Arabic looking and I'm not prejudiced at all as I used to have an Arabic boyfriend, we are still good friends and I have no problem with any race... but his look is a fact, it's not something that is reasonable to debate... you only debating it for the sake of debate, and that is called hair splitting.
Really? So basically your saying that due to her irresponsibility of overdrinking that she deserved it?
What I'm saying is it is never a clever thing to challenge fate. I think it's logical.
Her drinking is no excuse for the perpetrator, it's wrong to drink, but it's an absolutely different issue that must not be used in the context you are using it because it leads to blaming the victim. It's wrong to drink, but it's completely irrelevant here.
it´s complicated for strangers to say something, they won´t know if the couple is actually dating or even married. She could look that way at them out of drunkeness, right?
ONE..I HATE when people make comments/statements: LIKE..."She must of done something to deserve it"!!! NO ONE DESERVES to be HARMED in anyway shape or form!
Rapist have been known to spike drinks...watch your drinks...never leave them at the bar or on a table..take it with you, or finish it.
The rapist seems to have more rights than the victim...hence one of the reasons people don't report the crime!
You never get over it..! You never forget! You live with it!
More focus needs to be...
More focus needs to be put on the rapists & not so much the victims! Most rapists have been known to have a history & have been in & out of jail before! Laws need to be changed to keep them off the streets!
Bars are not the only place rapists go! They can follow you home from work, stores, bars etc. You don't even know they are there until it's too late. They can be the sweetest most charming person you know! They can be a friend of a friend...they can be ANYONE!
First Of All If You Go To A Night Club, You Should Go With Friends. Pick A Designated Drver Before You Go. Make Sure You Only Have Two Drinks Tops For The Evening, Don't Leave With Someone You Don't Know. And Make Sure Your Friends Don't Let You Leave Without Them, And ONLY Them!
I would have stepped in when she started her 2nd or 3rd alcoholic beverage, it's okay to party, drink, and have fun, but you need to know when to quit, I would have also stepped in when he was coming on to her after seeing how wasted she was. I would have done what the friend did, and said come on, let's go home. I would have told the guy to never come near her again or any other person when they were that wasted. Here in the USA, if anyone is under the influence of alcohol or drugs and you...
I would have stepped in when she started her 2nd or 3rd alcoholic beverage, it's okay to party, drink, and have fun, but you need to know when to quit, I would have also stepped in when he was coming on to her after seeing how wasted she was. I would have done what the friend did, and said come on, let's go home. I would have told the guy to never come near her again or any other person when they were that wasted. Here in the USA, if anyone is under the influence of alcohol or drugs and you have sex with them, even if you both were under the influence of something, it's still Rape. Because, no one can be in their right mind set when they are wasted or under the influence or drugs or alcohol to be able to make that serious and important of a decision. Also, you could see she was scared, so when you see your friend or someone who clearly seems like they are scared or uncomfortable, that's when you should step in. Also, if you came or went to something with people, you should stay w/them.