I think women rush pregnecy to much you ask them when are you do theyll say doctor says such a date but if i dont go by certain time im gonna be induced
Sense when do we have such a choice Baby will be here when its ready...
and once its here your gonna wonder if you can stick it back up there sometimes LOL LOL
so difficulft for many women intimidated by professionals. The last birth I attend was of a lady that was told that she had to be induced because the placenta was bad! She gave birth with 41 weeks beautifully at home.
I know, Mary Zwart, I know... The psychological terrorism of a bad placenta, of the insufficient amniotic fluid, of a too big baby... Poor women...
I was told all those things except the too big of baby part, they were telling me my baby could lose weight in utero! I did lots of my own research so I called B.S. on all their pressure techniques, but the Dr's manner made the last 12 days (post date) incredibly stressful which is not what a mama needs before birth.
I've seen too too many elective inductions end up as a c-section and with babies in the NICU...ALL unnecessarily. If only they had waited. Better times are among us and nurses need to be advocates and voices for our little ones.
I wish way more mamas were aware of the potential problems... although "Go the Full 40" is misleading, too many people don't realize going longer is perfectly normal.
I think all women want healthy full term babies my son went to almost 41 weeks but my daughter had to be taken early at 26 weeks or she would not be here with me now. im thankful for the technology that let the doctors save her.
As a nurse midwife....please, please, please say no to elective induction. HOW we are born, matter. Children are not convenient, but they are WORTH every minute of the rest of you life. Since you life is about to be very inconvenienced, you might as well start by letting labor happen when it will. It is not about you anymore, part of being a mother is giving of yourself, putting your needs second... or last sometimes.
I had a lovely birth four months ago at over 43 weeks. A happy, healthy baby and a relatively easy labor. Find a care provider who will let your baby come when he's good and ready!
I've always waited the full 40 weeks ,on my second pregnancy I waited even past the 41st week, my son was overdue but I refused to be induced I waited for him to start my contractions and it was the quickest birth ever only had contractions for 6 hours and when the nurse went to check at how far his head was she asked me to push and out came his head ,she said stop pushing and hold your breath as she ran out of the room to go find the doctor ,less than a minute later the doctor and nurse...
I've always waited the full 40 weeks ,on my second pregnancy I waited even past the 41st week, my son was overdue but I refused to be induced I waited for him to start my contractions and it was the quickest birth ever only had contractions for 6 hours and when the nurse went to check at how far his head was she asked me to push and out came his head ,she said stop pushing and hold your breath as she ran out of the room to go find the doctor ,less than a minute later the doctor and nurse were back and I pushed and out he came , that was the most pleasant labor that I had ever had ,compared to my first labor when I had pushed for 2 hours and 42 minutes ,I've had all 3 of my children carried full term and they were all healthy 8 pound babies ,as bad as the last couple of weeks get do to having back aches and braxton hicks, even sleepless nights because it's very hard to get comfortable ,its always best to wait until your contractions are going steady for about 30-45 seconds and 5 minutes apart from eachother ,on my first pregnancy I was having contractions steadily but they were 5-8 minutes apart ,so I grabbed my bags and left for the hospital the nurse examined me and told me that I was only a fingertip dilated,but my OBGYN had told me at my last visit a week prior that I was 4 centimeters dilated ,so at 6AM the nurse asked me if I wanted to wait for my doctor to get there or go home and come back once the contractions were more close ,so I said I'll wait for the doctor ,so at 9AM when my doctor arrived she examined me and said your 7 centimeters dilated, I told hher that the nurse said that I was only a fingertip dilated and that she wanted to send me home and my doctor said she isn't trained to beable to tell how much you are dilated , So Thank God that I decided to wait for my doctor to arrive or I prob would of gave birth at home , the labor moved very quickly from there I wasn't able to get an epidural or any pain medication because by the time my doctor put in the order and waited for the anesthesia doctor to arrive I had already finished dilating so I started pushing and was already in the middle of giving birth by the time that the anesthesia doctor showed up ,so I gave birth naturally ,and the pain was indescribable,after that experience I always would tell my OBGYN at the 7th month that I wanted an epidural ,and those epidurals are truly a Blessing , they allow you to enjoy the birthing process ,my last 2 babies I had epidurals for and they came out so fast and the pain nothing like my natural birth ,I could still feel my contractions and it was 10 times lower than my natural birth , it felt like pressure compared to my natural birth that felt like Edward scissor hand was carving up my stomache from the inside ,that pain from my natural birth is something that I will never forget , I am all for epidurals now , they truly change the labor and birth into an enjoyable event , waiting to 40 weeks is what's best for the baby ,and when your baby is ready to come out it'll show you by giving you contractions , I truly pray that all of you mommies to be have a happy and safe birthing experience ,with beautiful healthy babies born ,May God Bless you all .
I think that natural process is the better.