On October 26, 2011 I was awaken out of my sleep to find my abusers girlfriend at my door serving me papers. I repetedly told her I had an Order of Protection against her current boyfriend, my childs father, my abuser. She then repeateadly told me that she wasn't with him and he wouldn't find out because she wouldn't tell him.
As she took off, I ran after her, not to harm her but my gut told me she had lied and put my child and I in danger. My gut was right. He was standing about 10 feet or so away from my building not even, and then they both hopped into a blue rusted vehicle.
On October 25, 2012 my family court judge in Goshen, NY deciede to give my abuser my address and permission to come to the proterty in case I missed a visit. Keep in mind I had and still have a standing order of protection against my abuser. And this order was giving after my abuser knowingly violated his own rights by not showing up for eight court ordered visits. Yet and still I am the one who is being penalized.
Till this day, I still fear him holding me captive like he did in June of 2010. I can still feel his hands at my wrist and still feel the force he had on me not allowing me to seek help for my injuries and leave with my child. We weren't allowed to leave for almost two days, and when we did, he was with me every time making sure I didn't go to the hospital or to the cops. He even got rid of the pictures of the black eye and evidence that I kept in my black berry that I cant get back.
He's made threats to kill my daughter, a child he helped to create and now using against me. I can't go back home to Chicago with my child. I can't leave the state without his or the corrupt judges permission. I am being unfairly treated by CPS and the mental health services seem to be doing things in his favor.
I am scared and fear that he will do this again. That his girlfriend or family will stop at nothing to make my life hell over a child they have no real interest in. A child that is my daughter and whom I love with all my soul and want the best for.
Child Town Phoenix
This petition closed over 1 year ago
Women like my abusers girlfriend should be in jail for their part in aiding the abusive party violate any from of a judicial order. This was something that could have and should have been...
Women like my abusers girlfriend should be in jail for their part in aiding the abusive party violate any from of a judicial order. This was something that could have and should have been prevented. My address should have been kept confidential and there should have been a social worker or agency that served the court documents,
Allowing parties from the abusers support system serve any form of petitions only creates more conflict and puts the non-abusive parent and child in more danger. There is a reason victims/survivors seek the protection orders and that is to prevent further injury to the child and/or parents that were subject to these actions at the hands of their abuser.
If the third parties are willing to aid in the abusive party violating the law, then, just as the abusive party is subject to jail etc, that invividual should also be fined and/or jailed for accessory.